Cockroach Theory A beautiful speech by Sundar Picha

The cockroach theory for self development

At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady.

She started screaming out of fear.

With a panic stricken face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach.

Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky.

The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ...it landed on another lady in the group.

Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama.

The waiter  rushed forward to their  rescue.

In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.

The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behavior of the cockroach on his shirt.

When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.

Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach responsible for their histrionic behavior?

If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed?

He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.

It is not the cockroach, but the inability of those people to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach, that disturbed the ladies.

I realized that, it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or my wife that disturbs me, but it's my inability to handle the disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me.

It's not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me.

More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life.

Lessons learnt from the story:

I understood, I should not react in life.
I should always respond.

The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.

Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of.

A beautiful way to understand............LIFE.

Person who is HAPPY is not because Everything is RIGHT in his Life..

He is HAPPY because his Attitude towards Everything in his Life is Right..!!

So If you wanted to get into shape, you'd exercise. 

But what if you wanted to get your brain into better shape?

When you attend our Free Brain-A-Thon, you will learn how to:

• Quickly break free from the self-doubt, fear, procrastination and lack of confidence that is holding you back from achieving greater financial success and freedom.
• Break free from the limits that are holding you back from realizing your hopes and dreams.
• Gain more confidence in your abilities and in yourself and achieve greater financial success and freedom!

   

How to Make This Your Decade- Les Brown ?

How many times have you tried to set a goal and put down a plan and failed to accomplish it ?
Is this is right question to start  post with,really I don't know :)

But hey my friends honesty is the only way to reach our goals,I always say you have to be honest with yourself where you are right now to know where you are going.

And trying to search for some cool new training  to give you new ideas an techniques is a good way to go I cant blame you for searching,But to day I am bringing some new OLD training for Les Brown ,The powerful motivational speaker.

In this 48 minutes video he will tell you how to make this is your decade along with motivation to move you forward,here some of what you will get by the time you're done watching this awesome video:
1-Les Brown life story and how it was never been possile for him to get where he is if he couldn't believe in him self
2-How  he got his 1st dream job in the place he wanted to join ,while there were no jobs available
3- Thing you need to find out and write down to get you up when life outs you down(Hint: they are 5)
4-What are the type of people that you need to go away from and why,and how to make it justified to leave them .

Now I will let you watch this good video,and I wish you really like it

  So If you wanted to get into shape, you'd exercise. 

But what if you wanted to get your brain into better shape?

When you attend our Free Brain-A-Thon, you will learn how to:

• Quickly break free from the self-doubt, fear, procrastination and lack of confidence that is holding you back from achieving greater financial success and freedom.
• Break free from the limits that are holding you back from realizing your hopes and dreams.
• Gain more confidence in your abilities and in yourself and achieve greater financial success and freedom!

   

Do you believe in Energy Healing? Christie Marie Sheldon Will let you?

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Alright Guys I know it has been alot of time since the last post ton this blog,some of you may remember when was the last post,some may not,other may say "who the he#$ are you in the 1st place ?"

Well Super Achievers Club,is a simple blog that I created to help me and my friends become goal super achiever ,and part of this journey is for sure having master control on the energy of your being .

And taking about Energy and from my simple research I can say that Christie Marie Sheldon is one of those few authentic and genuine  people whom I be honored to introduce you to .

You can experience her speaking in the awesome "Awesomeness Fest " event 2010 ,she will tell you on how she can instantly understand you energy blocks that may be preventing you from achieving your personal and business goals.

So If you wanted to get into shape, you'd exercise. 

But what if you wanted to get your brain into better shape?

When you attend our Free Brain-A-Thon, you will learn how to:

• Quickly break free from the self-doubt, fear, procrastination and lack of confidence that is holding you back from achieving greater financial success and freedom.
• Break free from the limits that are holding you back from realizing your hopes and dreams.
• Gain more confidence in your abilities and in yourself and achieve greater financial success and freedom!

   

Do you fee stuck? 3 Ways To Change Your Mood Instantly

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I dont know what to do I am stuck 
I feel like I am in rat race
I feel discouraged

Do you often hear these words from other people's around you? or you find yourself falling in it? We are all human beings we have ups and down moments ,,,you fail more often than you win,you think it is all gone with the wind and you cant achieve your dreams.

I know this may happen for sometimes,but how you can change your mood and get up again,this is what I will try to discuss and hopefully help you now within this post,just bear with me I have some useful pRaCtICaL tips for you to go with.

First ,let us see how this happens ,you start working through the day ,you waste some time,you r feeling of time wasted without doing things kill you,or may be you spilled your coffee or cut your shirt while your wearing it.

You stuck...I know this is a self destructive
You need to make some stuff that change your mood instantly and here is some useful tips.
I plan to make this topic in a lot of posts because it really worth it ,but let us  some examples of stuff we can do.


1. Fake a smile:

Just try to remain angry with a smile on your face—it's impossible.
The idea of this tip is based on reverse engineering  mechanism ,when you are angry from inside it interpret out on your face with this negative grin,so we reverse it by smiling we force ourselves to feel happy or at least don't feel sad

 
Clean your Room:

Looking around you to find everything is messed up whether at home or at work is something that may drive you crazy( I know I experience this many times) 

Take this decision  right now,cut 10 minutes from working,turn of your PC or put in stand by mood,stand up and go make few simple things to make your room look better.Pick up clothes from the floor,arrange and collect books in your front desk,clean your desk from unwanted papers,empty glasses to the kitchen,and don't forget to put all the garbage in the trash can
believe it or not living in an organized environment has a major effect on your mood.

Do some stretches :

Changing your physiology affect your biochemistry which eventually affects your psychology,get up make some starches ,work out for 10-20 minutes ,do some exorcises ,break a sweat,this without a doubt will change you moon instantly ..I tried it ,time and time again.

If your depressed just run,you will feel better.Period

As I said in begining of this post we may need to break this topic into many posts as in has to be discussed with more details and alot of examples .I just try to make every post simple so that you find it easy to read and implement.

For now just try these 3 ways and let us know your experince with them,dont forget to like our page on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SuperAchieversClub 

So If you wanted to get into shape, you'd exercise. 

But what if you wanted to get your brain into better shape?

When you attend our Free Brain-A-Thon, you will learn how to:

• Quickly break free from the self-doubt, fear, procrastination and lack of confidence that is holding you back from achieving greater financial success and freedom.
• Break free from the limits that are holding you back from realizing your hopes and dreams.
• Gain more confidence in your abilities and in yourself and achieve greater financial success and freedom!

   

How And Why to Stop Multitasking and Stay Productive,Make Better Relationships

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Hello everybody to today’s post. This post is uniquely special as it offers something that might shock you, really I mean it.

As we aspire to become (Goal Super Achievers) we try to make things to increase our productivity, so we make 2 things at a time which we call multitask, hoping that this will help us make the best out of our time, but the real truth about the so-called “Multitasking” may really shock you, why? 

Before I go in more details trying to explain why multitasking is bad ,let us go watch this awesome video for Eileen, it will sum up everything about multitasking why you need to stop it in a very exciting and funny way. Watch it before you continue to this article

Now that you have watched it,( I knew you would laugh out loud,didn’t you) you have a bit of conflict.We have been told many times before from our bosses ,your trainers and our HR consultant that multitasking is good ,yet every desired and dream job require that you have the ability to multitask.

So what is the truth ,is it a good skill or does it really hurt to multitask?

Answer this simple quiz for now to know

Pop quiz:

Which of the following activities temporarily reduces your IQ by 10 points?

A. Smoking marijuana

B. E-mailing while talking on the phone

C. Losing a night's sleep

D. Watching two hours of "Saved by the Bell" reruns

According to a study by the Institute of Psychiatry at the University of London, the correct answer is B.

Researchers studied 1,100 workers at a British company and found that multitasking with electronic media caused a greater decrease in IQ than smoking pot or losing a night's sleep. (As far as I know, no one has yet studied the effects on IQs of bad sit-com watching).

"To put it bluntly, research shows that we can't multitask. We are biologically incapable," says John Medina, author of the book "BrainRules."

Can the human brain multitask?

Here is another study that says “Multitasking really hurt your brain”

The study suggests that people who try to manage two things (multiple stuff) at a time lose productivity and their ability to learn may deceases.

"We have to be aware that there is a cost to the way that our society is changing," Russell Poldrack, a psychology professor at the University of California, Los Angeles, recently told National Public Radio. "Humans are not built to work this way."

For more information, visit MSN or watch the video below to hear Medina talk about his New YorkTimes bestseller, "Brain Rules." 

Also I have found another important proof that we are not really able to multitask.it really hurt and let us loose our focus, and ultimately decrease productivity.

Think you can multitask ? Dave Crenshaw challenges you that you can’t do without these bad signs

He is the author of “The Myth of Multitasking” in which he reveals how the mind cant multitask, also how it is a big lie that we can multitask, it wastes our time and most importantly is damage out relationship:

Watch this video to see how bad multitasking may affect our relationship with people whom we love and supposed to appreciate

So by now I think you have the big picture, may be with more details, multitasking is not as good as we used to think, as we used to be told by others.

For me I decided not to speak to my mother while working or even looking at my laptop, this really hurt and I am sure is made her disappointed with me.

While you are doing it in a way to increase productivity it deceases our productivity in fact. How shocking is this J

So, have you experienced this at work, family or home before? What is your ideal way of increasing productivity (away from multitasking for sure)? Speak your mind. Let us know what you think about this post.

I really enjoyed making ups this post for you, collecting data and videos. Although I have another points that I didn’t make I will make it for another post.

I know I have just aroused the problem without speaking about potential solutions. I just don’t want this post go longer so you don’t get bored. Keep an eye for coming posts and a complementary for this one.

For now why don’t you go and share this with your friends, comment on this article if you want on out fb page here. or tweet about it here.

Thank you and I see you on the next post J

Have a nice Productive ;) day 

So If you wanted to get into shape, you'd exercise. 

But what if you wanted to get your brain into better shape?

When you attend our Free Brain-A-Thon, you will learn how to:

• Quickly break free from the self-doubt, fear, procrastination and lack of confidence that is holding you back from achieving greater financial success and freedom.
• Break free from the limits that are holding you back from realizing your hopes and dreams.
• Gain more confidence in your abilities and in yourself and achieve greater financial success and freedom!